Sincerely yours...
Sincerity. I think most ppl can feel the sincerity of a certain individual by the way they talk, their physical actions as well as eye contact. And now, you can even sense a person's sincerity by the way they type their keyboard. And with these senses of the sincerity level displayed by a certain person, it is actually a cue for you to decide, or giving you an idea more likely, that, will things work out to be what you think or hope it might be wif this specific individual? It's a little bit confusing here, but I will try my best to elaborate what i mean here wif the sample below:The Scenario:
For, let's say.. okie, imagine you got 2 friends, X & Y. Both are in similar position, your friends. One fine day, all three of you were chatting wif each other in whatever chatroom. In ur mind, you knew that you are only interested to chat wif X (reason[s] being, up to your imagination). So, when X popped up, you started to pent up with excitement and thinking what would strike a good conversation from there. Okie, so you finally did get something up to start a line, hoping that it will turn into an prominent conversation. But alas, you realized in a while that eventually, you did the talking, i mean, typing more than what X replied most of the time during the chatz.. and it did make you wonder, is X really that interested chatting with you? or is X juz being nice and for the sake of manners, trying to entertain you with a few words in reply to the things that you said? and somehow, you knew that YOU were the one that was trying very hard to get X to say something, by throwing open-ended questions. Everytime.
The Conversation:
YOU: so, did you manage to catch the show last nite?
X: yea, i did. u?
YOU: uhhuh, yupe. dat was real funny. i was laughing non-stop. don't you think dat whatever-the-name is damn hilarious?
X: so-so, could be better.
YOU: (starting to run out thing to say) oh yea? y u say so? i think he's okie.
X: nahh.. juz think it's not that funny.
YOU: (really starting to run out of topic) ohhh.. i see. so, not going out tonite?
X: yea, later. maybe out for dinner wif friends.
YOU: (totally blank now) ohh.. where u having ur dinner wif ur friends?
X: somewhere near my place. hey, tell u wut, wanna take my shower. chat later yea. bye.
(X appears to be offline. Messages that you send will be delivered when they sign-in.)
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okie, that's the end of your conversation wif X. got wut i mean? (oh yea, it normally took X an average of 5 mins to make a reply)
On the other hand, however, Y was also online. But you didn't feel like chatting up so you juz pretended to be idle. But Y juz dropped you a line. So there's nothing you could do, so you juz replied Y wif a simple "hie". Y kept trying to chat up a conversation wif you. ---- And so, please refer to the above The Conversation. Juz change the role of YOU to Y; X to YOU.
(YOU appears to be offline. Messages that you send will be delivered when they sign-in)
P/S: YOU actually did not sign-out. YOU blocked Y.



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