Re-posting

Beware of FFK Idiots!

Have you ever been FFKed before..? i'm sure everyone does... but to wut extend can you really stand all this @^#&^$%#&^ FFK-behaviour ppl..?!
FFK initials for --> Fly Fucking Kites (english version) or Fong Fei Kei (cantonese version)
For sure as long as you live, you must have encountered such FFK idiots before.. most probably numerous times.. and sometimes, you urself can become one as well... (as long as you have really solid and acceptable reason(s), it's okie..)
The definition of FFK is whereby a person tends to have the intention to break/cancel/knock-off/postpone (wutever u call it) a date, meeting, gathering or appointment that he/she promised without/forget/last minute (most of the time complemented with all kinds of lame excuses when confronted later by the FFK victim) informing the other party/person (which is the FFK victim/s)... <-- chehh.. like writing definitions for dissertations =P... Okie, the question is... how would you feel..or react... to a particular person if he/she had FFK you..for god-sake... uncountable times?! most of the times... juz simply shows interest to go a particular place... or promised to go to a certain gathering..but end up looking blankly at you when you try to re-confirm the date like you juz talked like an alien from Mars..? or worst still... he/she saying something like.."oh yea.. 4got to inform you, the date/meeting/gathering had been cancelled..." juz 2 days before.. the date! imagine...wouldn't you feels like strangling his/her neck and immediately break off his/her head like you did to ur barbie while throwing your tantrums when u were little?!! How could a normal human, by all means, will have the ability to forget about informing you that the date/meeting/gathering was canceled.. moreover.. it's only when you re-confirm for the third time then they make the statement of "forget-to-tell-u" reasons...leaving you to the ultimate experience of total frustration and body numbness caused by boiling point anger! and eventually..these idiots does these FFK activites not once.. but on regular basis... I pray to God... please vibe off these kind of FFK idiots from the world.. there shouldn't be any place in the world for these kind of species... have mercy on us, let us live a healthy life without these super idiots to sabotage our well-being...

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What a blessing it would be if we could open and shut our ears as easily as we open and shut our eyes!
Georg Christoph Lichtenberg(1742 - 1799)

Use da News

Most probably some of you heard tiz before but feel like posting it here...
Was on my way back home after finished work the other day..and was stuck in the middle of traffic jam, i heard something really funny on the radio station.. no, not funny.. ermm.. more like ridiculous..and hilarious, as to y some ppl do this kind of thing... but anyway...here the story goes...
**Celeb XX had posted a piece of her undergarment up for auction on eBay...for the purpose of raising fund as an effort for a certain XX disaster relief which happened recently. The highest bid eventually shot up to RM60,000 (imagine, RM60k for a piece of undergarment juz becuz it had been worn by celeb XX? euwwwww...) .... but the biggest news is dat, celeb XX take the piece of undergarment off the auction when it reach RM60,000 for the reason of:
"I think the ppl simply bid for it juz becuz they know i had wear it before in certain concerts or certain functions, they are not bidding it for the sake of the fund..", says celeb XX**
the radio DJ was also pissed off while reading tiz news.. hahaha.... he said, "if she feels that way, y put that piece of undergarment up there for sale at the first place..? well, only her, i can't think of anyone else would do such a thing..haha.."
i totally agree wif the DJ.. this celeb XX juz hoping for some publicity... gosh...wut stupidity level a human being can achieved when he/she is desperate for some lime light...
if you happened to have heard this on the radio, u sure noe who is celeb XX .. but for those of you who'd miss it...here's a hint: her name starts wif the letter B...
p/s: for those who bidded for the undergarment, really curious to know what you will do wif that thing if you managed to win the bid... hihi...

The Bridges of Madison County
my sis introduced me this book 2 or 3 years back..it's one of the most touching true story that i've ever came across..it was made into a movie back in 1995.. check thiz out ppl, it's worth a read.. here's the sysnosis provided by amazon.com:
by Robert James Waller

Quietly powerful and thoroughly credible, Waller's first novel (he previously wrote two books of essays) describes the profound love between a photographer and an Iowa farmer's wife who, together for only four days, never lose their feelings for each other. In August 1965, 52-year-old divorce Robert Kincaid packs his pickup truck and travels to Iowa's Madison County, the location of seven covered bridges he is to photograph for National Geographic . There, he asks directions of Francesca Johnson, alone at home while her husband and two children visit the Illinois State Fair. Initially, neither Robert nor Francesca expects their random encounter to lead to seduction, yet their mutual desire is undeniable. Waller tells their story as though it were nonfiction, claiming to have heard about Francesca from her children after her death, read her journals, seen Robert's relics of those four days and interviewed a jazz musician who knew the photographer. Scenes between the lovers are movingly evoked and moments with Francesca, who celebrates her birthday 22 years later by reflecting on her brief time with Robert, are particularly poignant. An erotic, bittersweet tale of lingering memories and forsaken possibilities.

Sigh No More

(by William Shakespeare) Sigh no more, ladies, sigh no more,Men were deceivers ever;One foot in sea, and one on shore,To one thing constant never.Then sigh not so,But let them go,And be you blith and bonny,Converting all your sounds of woeInto Hey nonny, nonny.Sing no more ditties, sing no moOf dumps so dull and heavy;The fraud of men was ever so,Since summer first was leavy.Then sigh not so,But let them go,And be you blith and bonny,Converting all your sounds of woeInto Hey nonny, nonny.

Quote of The Day

He who hesitates is a damned fool.
Mae WestUS movie actress (1892 - 1980)


Dilemma

What would you do if one day you realize that you don't love that particular "some one" that is dear to you a.k.a, urbeloved, anymore....?

I've been doing some surveys around, questioning most of my ji muiz... no, i'm not a psycho freak that like to research on ppl's love affair, in case u’re thinking that I'm one now...but anyway, the outcome of the survey is...not quite impressive..most of the answers are the typical type that you already expecting... i.e: dump him/her, try to understand the situation 1st before breaking up, try to save the relationship if you think it's worth it..blah blah blah...& blah blah & more blah blah..
Actually, what I'm trying to find out is... how to break the bad news to
urso-called "beloved" (now will be ex-beloved)..? How do you eventually tell him/her that you no longer need him/her, no longer love him/her, and nothing more to do with him/her anymore... a total end to the relationship... while he/she don’t even have a clue what's happening...or maybe, he/she juz ignores the problems in the relationship and make pretend that those problems don’t even exist?
I'm really curious as how do some of my friends that seems to take their relationship ever so lightly that, he/she may be in a relationship today and enjoying single life again the very next day..and simply involve with someone new the following day... I know it's never a good idea to fling around to the extreme, but..it's juz simply amazing how they do that... and I must say, not all of them are "cute gals" or "gorgeous guys"... but hey, some ppl juz know how to deal with their weakness...they juz camouflage it easily as 123...and voila, they can get any of their dream gals/guys with a snap of the fingers… but that's another story..
Back to the subject, so.. wut i'm trying to say is.. how do you speak out the truth about
urdying flames to
uranother half..? that you need to end the relationship there and then...? Or should I ask, do you feel any guilt by being the one to voice out the break up..?
Most of the feedback I get when I throw this question to my mates is.."no need to be guilty... it's juz no more feel.." ... Yeah, rite, try doing that urself, then only you tell me...
Eventually, I do get better responds from some ppl now and then..and they do have their point when they said.."you will feel that the guilt is juz a teeny weeny bit if you think the other way round..think that if there's no point to stay in a relationship.. better end it rather then drag it on.. it will do him/her better than to live in a pretentious relationship everyday..." <--- (bingo! true to the max..) But it's always easier say then do... it's totally a different story when it's "tell the truth" time.. juz went you think u are ready to say it out, you will begin to get nervous, then panic and then totally freak out and finally chicken out and mumble something about the weather rather than telling him/her that all you want is breaking up... Overall, courage plays a big part in doing the rite things at the rite moment and making the rite decision...and finding the rite person.. but courage always lie beneath your heart and mind ever so deeply that, some ppl couldn’t find it at all.... no, not couldn’t find, but refuse to dig it out… Wut i always believe is that, no matter how hard it is, juz follow your heart… i realize that there are no one here to help you but urself… friends & families will always be by urside to guide you, to show their support, but they can’t help you make the decision.. they can’t help you get the guts out and tell the truth… but they will always be there whenever they are needed… one must always remember that, wutever the decision is, one must never be regretful…cuz, that’s the path you choose to walk… Anyway, I really like comments from anyone that they thi¢nk they can give some ideas on this “breaking up dilemma”.. anyone is welcome for a feed back, good or bad.. or if u think wut I’ve written here sux, then shed me some light on how to be a better individual.. many thanks!